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The main focus of my work

is to provide tools and guidance to help you create a better YOU
which helps you create better relationships of all kinds.


Clients call our way of working together “liberating and enlivening.” They say it’s full of delight and discovery, and encourages lightness of heart and mind.

Some folks think therapy or self-improvement is drudgery, but you’ve got to do it anyway. I think drudgery, force, effort, or pain for gain is overrated. Besides, that method is a long and winding road, and not that efficient.

There are other ways and – the good news -- they work better.

Besides, you’re not broken.

You don't need fixing.

The process with In Care of Relationships works more quickly, there’s more joy as you go, and you gain positive momentum. I’m guessing you’ll appreciate it!

Whether you’re married, single, dating, or in a new or committed relationship, it won’t take long to see what’s going on. That’s my job. From there, it’s all about helping you create positive change in the direction you want to go. That’s what we do together.

Terri Crosby


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Intimacy Is Everywhere

Hello Everyone,

Today, intimacy.

Love to you all,

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Friday Love: Bam! Gate Breaking, Anyone?

Good Friday, Everyone!

Today, I’m sharing a story about how I accidentally accomplished something on my bucket list. I ran through an exit gate while looking the other way. The hood of my car is scratched up, and one windshield wiper is a mess, but let’s have a good laugh about how we never expect what “getting what we want” includes!

Let me know if you relate…

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Enough with the Name-Calling

It seems to be a growing fad these days to call someone a narcissist, or declare they are toxic.
Political name-calling is similar—we assign politicians and voters to categories, and brush them off as if they are unintelligent, inferior, or even worthless.
By labeling others, we miss their humanity. We gloss over their struggle, their best effort at dealing with life. We dismiss them.
We do to them what we believe they are doing to others.
Look past a label, and in the soft light of day, there stands a person like you or like me, coping as best they can. At the end of the day, no friend, parent, or lover making conscious choices intends to be mean, or to ignore, or to embellish. There is always more to the story.
If we label others, then for sure we label ourselves. We trap ourselves into believing we are less than. Or not enough. Or we don’t give ourselves the time and forgiveness to work through our “stuff.” Maybe, if we stopped accusing others of narcissism, we could forgive ourselves for those moments when we were narrow-minded, inconsiderate, or afraid.
When it comes to labels, nobody wins.
So, my dear people, I suggest we peer a little deeper into ourselves to investigate a need to separate ourselves from others by tacking them with a label filled with disdain or scorn.
It is my wish that you view this video and take it to heart.
Much love,

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