In this video my definition of a mistake is making a decision or taking an action while being out of touch with my broader knowing. A mistake can feel bad because it is an action which is not lined up with who I really am.
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What a great set of words for these oncoming days.
Terri’s book of photography combined with poetry is here! 100 Words: Small Servings of Whimsy and Wisdom to Calm the Mind and Nourish the Heart.
Terri’s book of photography combined with poetry is here! 100 Words: Small Servings of Whimsy and Wisdom to Calm the Mind and Nourish the Heart.
Sometimes we ask intimate partners to do for us what is actually ours to do.
We ask our partner to give us the reassurance, love or appreciation we feel is missing in ourselves, with the hope that they will give us what we’re asking for—and then we’ll feel better. They’ll take care of our problem.
But when they do give us what we’re asking for, it can never be enough, because we have insufficient context for what they’ve given. We haven’t build the inner foundation to receive it, hear it, welcome it, believe it. They try to help, but their love for us falls into our void, our black hole, our love bucket with no bottom.
As always, there’s hope. Check out the video below.
Terri Crosby. http://www.incareofrelationships.com/.
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Holly Simms
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Terri, what would you say was the galvanizing change that you made you improve your relationship situation? I’d really like to know.
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Terri Crosby
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The very biggest change for me is that I stopped acting like a victim of my circumstances. I took my foot out of the door — you know that thing when you have “one foot out the door”? I turned the finger I had been pointing at other people and pointed the finger at me. I took everything that I had tossed in someone else’s lap and put it deliberately and consciously back in mine. I stopped looking at Eric, for instance, as if he had done me wrong, or could ever do me wrong in the future. I decided he was always doing his best and so was I.
I took responsibility. What a concept. It made all the difference and continues to make all the difference.
Thank you for asking!
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I am really enjoying the VBlogs, and it’s fun to see Mac
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Devaya
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I appreciate your honesty!
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corey fowler
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Sweet… Your honesty is refreshing and enlightening!
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Terri Crosby
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Thank you, Corey, since you were “one of the many!”
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