Why bother to save a marriage on the rocks? Perhaps it would be smarter to start over. Get something shiny and new, like with shoes or a car.
Why be in a relationship? Do you know why anyone gets together with another to create a life?
One answer rules: We think it will make us happy.
But often it doesn’t.
What if marriage is only about rising up to become your best YOU? If true, this intent is not accomplished in idyllic circumstances. One must be questioned, opposed, challenged.
Now isn’t that partner of yours helping more than you thought?