100 Words: On Love

Kindness grows in any climate, any time of year. Kindness has the heart of a flower growing in the crack of a rock, glad to be alive wherever it is.

Suspicion and blame take root in acidic soil, and overtake a garden not tended to or weeded regularly. Fear grows in clumps, banding together for a show of strength. 

Fear is a servant of Love. Walk through fear and you’ll find Love, the Source of All.

Love wears a coat of many colors. It’s in sunshine, rain and wind.

Love breathes you, moves you.

Yes. It’s what built your heart.

 

 

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    Marilyn Hubbard

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    Lovely! I like this idea of 100 words. Feels like poetry. Reduces to the essential.

    Hope all goes well with the move. A stressful time but leads to new adventures. Thinking of you.
    Marilyn

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thank you, Marilyn! I’m looking forward to my new adventures. Love to you! Terri

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    Va

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    Condensing what you want to say in a smaller no of words is more difficult I think than having gazillions of words to say it–its the core. You do it well.
    Love, Va

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      Terri Crosby

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      Reducing is such a good exercise. It’s teaching me a lot. Love you sweet, Va. Terri

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    Andrea

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    Terri, this is so beautiful and relevant given the social and political climate we are living through. Thank you! I shared it on Facebook. Love, Andrea

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thank you so much for sharing it, Andrea! I so appreciate that and I love that more people will be reading it, taking it to heart. love, Terri

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    Kate

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    I love this. I’m going to hang it on my wall. Thank you for sharing your writing.

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thank you, Kate. I’m very touched by your comment. As always. love, Terri

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    Liz

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    I enjoyed the power and clarity of this Haiku blog. Woodrow Wilson is quoted as saying, “. . . if I have an hour to speak I’m ready now. If ten minutes, I’ll need a month to prepare.” Words matter, clarity is power.
    Hugs,
    Liz

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thank you, Liz. So true! Thanks for chiming in. You always sound beautiful. 🤗

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    shiner

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    How lovely.
    Quite a challenge I imagine, encouraging the poet/wordsmith within.

    Thanks for these wonderful images.

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thanks, Shiner. It’s my new thing to write less! Love, Terri

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    Emily

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    Love the shorter post! It’s almost like a Haiku – I felt very peaceful reading it. Thank you!

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thank you, Emily, for your vote for shorter! I like it. It’s my new thing… Love, Terri

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    Jeanne Myers

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    You are brilliant even with 100 words!

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      Terri Crosby

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      Thank you, Jeanne! I deeply appreciate your encouraging words! Love, Terri

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Rise Up by Andra Day

What a great set of words for these oncoming days.

Rise Up

Andra Day
 
You’re broken down and tired
Of living life on a merry go round
And you can’t find the fighter
But I see it in you so we gonna walk it out
And move mountains
We gonna walk it out
And move mountains
And I’ll rise up
I’ll rise like the day
I’ll rise up
I’ll rise unafraid
I’ll rise up
And I’ll do it a thousand times again
And I’ll rise up
High like the waves
I’ll rise up
In spite of the ache
I’ll rise up
And I’ll do it a thousand times again
For you
For you
For you
For you
When the silence isn’t quiet
And it feels like it’s getting hard to breathe
And I know you feel like dying
But I promise we’ll take the world to its feet
And move mountains
Bring it to its feet
And move mountains
And I’ll rise up
I’ll rise like the day
I’ll rise up
I’ll rise unafraid
I’ll rise up
And I’ll do it a thousand times again
For you
For you
For you
For you
All we need, all we need is hope
And for that we have each other
And for that we have each other
And we will rise
We will rise
We’ll rise, oh, oh
We’ll rise
I’ll rise up
Rise like the day
I’ll rise up
In spite of the ache
I will rise a thousand times again
And we’ll rise up
High like the waves
We’ll rise up
In spite of the ache
We’ll rise up
And we’ll do it a thousand times again
For you
For you
For you
For you
Ah, ah, ah, ah
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Songwriters: Cassandra Monique Batie / Jennifer Decilveo
Rise Up lyrics © BMG Rights Management

Terri’s book of photography combined with poetry is here! 100 Words: Small Servings of Whimsy and Wisdom to Calm the Mind and Nourish the Heart.

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Rippling Abs, Anyone?

Rippling Abs, Anyone?

During this strange time in history, I noticed y’all were tackling all sorts of interesting projects. I decided I needed one, too—something positive to remember the pandemic of 2020 by.
 
I decided to pay attention to something I had abandoned…
 
Nope, I’m not cleaning my garage. I am not organizing one single thing. I’m not planting a garden or cleaning up my yard.
 
Instead, I decided to take care of myself better. This, folks, has made all the difference for me.
 
With relatively little time and effort on my part, I feel so much better than I did a month ago.
 
On March 30, I got on the exercise bike and the yoga mat for the first time in a long time, and did 30 minutes each. I liked it so much that I decided to do it every day. But I fell short of that, and changed my commitment to every other day, which felt more manageable, reasonable, and doable.
 
I also get off the bike after every song, take a couple of sips of water, shake out my legs and arms for a few seconds, and get back on. This makes the bike project a reasonable proposition, too.
 
Daily walks of any length—by myself, or with my little guy, Jackson—are a fresh air bonus.
 
My recumbent exercise bike has pulleys to work my upper body while I pedal, which gets my heart rate up fast, and also helps my whole-body strength. It feels good to get up from writing, or doing a consulting session with a client, to do something physically challenging while listening to good music.
 
After only a month, I feel a sheet of muscles on the front of me I haven’t felt for a very, very long time. Goodness gracious. Who knew they were there. I’ll be posting rippling ab photos soon, I’m sure.
 
I have no idea what the scales have to say about my bike/yoga project—I don’t care. Paying attention to scales tends to send me sideways, and therefore, I’m ignoring them completely.
 
But—I LOVE the way I feel! Hang in there, everyone.
 

Terri’s book of photography combined with poetry is here! 100 Words: Small Servings of Whimsy and Wisdom to Calm the Mind and Nourish the Heart.

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Check Out This Troublemaker in Relationships

Check Out This Troublemaker in Relationships

Sometimes we ask intimate partners to do for us what is actually ours to do.

We ask our partner to give us the reassurance, love or appreciation we feel is missing in ourselves, with the hope that they will give us what we’re asking for—and then we’ll feel better. They’ll take care of our problem.

But when they do give us what we’re asking for, it can never be enough, because we have insufficient context for what they’ve given. We haven’t build the inner foundation to receive it, hear it, welcome it, believe it. They try to help, but their love for us falls into our void, our black hole, our love bucket with no bottom.

As always, there’s hope. Check out the video below.

Terri Crosby. http://www.incareofrelationships.com/.

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